i noe i m not in the position to say anything
since i m not the zuzhang
but seriously
pls ask urselves these questions
1. who wanted a qunying outing/chalet?
2. who went for the qunying outing/chalet?
i noe many of u have ur commitments n stuff
so i expected the chalet to be a flop
n it is
ppl who said they could go
where were u all?
pls dun tell me i m blind
but i dun recall seeing ppl who said they WANTED to go
but they din turn up
n they din even have the courtesy to inform me or guochang
that they r not coming
the remaining is directed to the zuzhangs:
i noe u all r busy with ur own commitments n stuff
but excuse me
did u realise everyone else is the same
both of u r busy
well so r we
did u all actually notice
u all r always asking the acts comm to do stuff
if u din notice
well heres wad i feel
i have been constantly been involved in all this stuff throughout the year
everytime its always
can u all acts comm do this do that
then the whole issue becomes
acts comm problem
i really hate it when u all tell us
we trust u all to make the right decisions
well wad if something goes wrong
whose fault is it?
its acts comm
i was quite wth when both the zuzhangs were not present for the chalet
but i noe u all have ur own stuff so i dun blame u all
but this is wad i have to tell both of u
maybe u all might be angry
but i still find the need to tell both of u
i dun feel that u all r doing anything
half the time
i feel that its the acts comm doing everything
its always so difficult to discuss with u all
cos
1. u all r always not around
2. u all r busy
i shall take it that u all r busy
n not cos u all r not bothered to do anything
thats y u get the acts comm to do everything
but dun u think that the zuzhangs shud also help with the planning of activities
or even asking ppl to come?
pls ask urself this
did u all even make an effort to help us with planning this chalet?
u all said u all wanted a chalet
we had a meeting
we had the chalet
n wad happened?
do u noe that we shouldnt even be using qunying's name to ask other tongxunyuans to attend the chalet
i seriously think we should have used the acts comm name instead
we called the whole tongxunyuan to invite ppl to come
do u all zuzhangs even noe wads happening in qunying
cos i dun think u all noe
at all
even if u carn come for the chalet
the least u could do is to help us with the planning
pls dun throw me " cos u all din inform me"
i think as a zuzhang
u shud be on task
n not wait for the rest to tell u wads going on
u all r busy
i believe the acts comm already did their best to help u all with the workload
but helping does not equals dumping
collecting money for the chalet
one question i nid to ask
y carn u do it n find the need to ask me to do it
cos u din go for the chalet
but u can collect after the chalet rite?
ya i noe
ppl will be saying
omg y she like that one
only collecting money wad not a big deal
well then i have to shoot it back to u
only collecting money
y the acts comm?
i think we all shud do some serious reflection about the whole issue
n wads happening to zi geng di?
cos no one is doing anything
yuhan
April 2008